Totally Organized
Including Relationships

Getting your life totally organized involves more than just throwing out your clutter, filing papers and getting things done. It also includes having good relationships that work for you and do not take all your time.

I left my wife over two years ago and our relationship is still giving me trouble and I am not totally organized with it. She cannot seem to let go. I am not interested in getting back with her and have said this to her so many times I sound like a broken record. I have moved on but she has not.

Her interest in me still takes a lot of my time and energy. It seems like every tragic situation in her family such as an aunt of uncle passing away is an excuse for her to call me and insist I come back. Since I am not by nature a cruel person, I listen to her when someone in her family dies. I am thinking that is what a decent person does: provide some sympathy. But it is almost like she is using the death to guilt trip me back under her thumb.

If you have read any of my website you will see that I value my time very much. I am always looking for ways to have more time. My whole life is based on that goal. Everything I do revolves around creating more free time for me to do what I want to do.

My time is my time and is of extreme value to me. I write this website with all my ideas on how to save time so you can have more time too.

Every time she calls and won't get off the phone is time gone for my use.

So all the time that I have to spend dealing with her is time away from my time.

I have a full time job. I have 2 kids to see and care for some of the time. I want to get enough rest, keep my apartment clean, prepare nutritious meals, take care of my errands and have some fun. I have friends and a family. I workout and want to do other things too. I left her thinking that I would not have to deal with her that much. It seems I am wrong.

I still get stuck on the phone with her too much. I am not totally organized with my relationship with her. I need to be able to work with her and I want to have a friendly relationship with her. The kids need her to be happy so I am not into making her life difficult.

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